"Why We Get Used To Of The People?" 

The answer is very simple and obvious. Because at that particular time we mean everything for that person. Every thing means that he\she gives you full attention, time, love, care and affection and most importantly respect. And with  the passage of time this thing starting to fade away.

Ignoring effect you physically:

And that person start ignoring you. Not because he\she needs some time and some space may be to some extend this thing is possible but in majority of the cases they (he\she\particular group of people) starting ignoring you. And that thing hurts us the most that's why that person who promised to be with us left us so easily.  At that time when they start making excuses and start telling lies despite of that they know that you what the exact thing is.

"So look me in the eyes

Tell me what you see?

Perfect paradise tearing at the seams

I wish I could escape it

I don't wanna fake it 

I wish could erase it

Make your heart believe that 

I'm a bad lair

You are free to go...." 

                                              By:" Imagine Dragons" 

Reasons :

Some of the reasons are given below that are related for this things:

• Lets say for example that two people of opposite gender meet on any social media app.
• Then first they are strangers but slowly they start chatting.
• And then boom jis ka dar tha waahi hoa naw sad loif ( that thing happened which is destined to be happen).
• They become good friends and as usual one of them fall for the other.
• And the forehead you all know very well.

Talking to a Stranger:

 So, the thing is its not that you talked to a stranger on any app because in our daily life we all do talk to the people whom we didn't know that doesn't mean that we start friendship with then or built any kind of relationship ( okay lets take an example in our daily routine we use public transport and we talk to the driver of that vehicle. Okay now that person is also a stranger hope you guys got my point. Now it doesn't mean we start friendship with them or invite them to our house for having dinner or lunch that pretty awkward right!)  So the thing is we are dealing with strangers day and night and the thing that matters a lot here is the how we perceive that thing.

One should know their Limits: 

At least for me its really very important that everyone should know his\her limits regardless of the gender. When one knows his\her limits and most importantly when he\she knows that Allah watches him\her all the time. Then he\she never thought of that he\she can do whatever they wanna do. Now please make one thing clear here we all are humans and are really very sinful. We are not angels, we are not Sufis, we are not on the level of Prophecy okay. We are only the Supreme Creature of Allah (SWT) so we do make mistakes, we do commit sins, we do involve in various other filthy acts and things.

Realization of Right Path:

Now the thing is that we realize that we are not right path. We need to connect to Allah so that He forgives us because He is Allah Almighty. 

This the summary of that Farman these are not exact wording.

Farman Of Allah (SWT):

He said that:

"After committing so many sins 

don't get disappointed The doors 

Of My Mercy Will Always Open For 

You" 

                 

Conclusion:

 

At the end I just wanna say that please make sure that you know the person whom you are talking or in a relationship. Because its important for you as well as for your loved ones. If you are in pain and mentally disturb then if also effect your loved ones.

Try to maintain a good, Healthy and peaceful relationships with ones whom you know very well.