"Trauma" 

Trauma is defined as:

"A deeply or worse distressing moments that cause the mental disturbance of the person brain by the continuous over whelming events that become the cause of the disability of the person to integrate normally." 

Now the question arises that why trauma is or what traumatization really is?

So, with out a further lets role the introduction.

Strong Command over Phycology: 

Now before I start I wanna clear one thing like pure water or clean mirror. Its a phycological state of mind. And personally I had a strong command over that phycological thing so if you guys wanna know something more deep about this feel free to ask question and I'll try my best to explain. 

Because I am kind of understand such persons very well and I am also interested in this field because that is something that we really need to solve in present era.

What is phycological traumatization?

For me trauma is something that make you feel the same effect that some thing hits you so hard that it shattered you in pieces. Now the thing is what causes us to feel traumatized obviously the behavior of feel and keep one thing in mind I said people not the behavior of loved ones. You know why? because its the nature of people that they take effect of other  people behavior very early and start dealing with them the same way they treated you at very first meet up or ever since they meet you.

Now the thing is we start judging them without knowing them that they are good or bad persons. You know we are doing this because they treat us in somewhat different way.

Try to understand The Behavior of Others:

So, please don't make such mistake may be that person is also suffering from the same thing that your are suffering from, or may be his problem is way to serious than yours, or may be he is not feeling well despite of that he tells you solution regarding your problem or they very common thing is that. They are by nature like that I mean to say that they are reserved and don't have habit of dissolving so easily with different people. 

So, basically this is traumatization that we feel the behavior of people so much. 

Now talk about the behavior of the ones who loved us a lot and when their behavior changes then this thing effect us mentally as well as physically. Because they mean a lot for us and when their behavior changes they give us pain and trauma though we may act like that we don't care but deep inside this thing destroy us. 

Trauma in My Sense:

For me trauma is like such pain that changed us  into totally different person. The person that we never ever thought that we become. But surprise we changed not for the sake of others but for the betterment our selves. Now you guys say that why we changed ourselves. So, the reason is very simple and to the point.

When people hurt you badly and same is the case with our loved ones. Then its better to change your behavior regarding them. You know why because this is the only way to live a happy peaceful and satisfying life. In this way you don't expect any thing from anyone else out there. Because expectations always hurt. And when you don't expect anything from anyone then you live a happy and peaceful life for sure.

My Experience with Trauma:

And there is no one who can understand such state better then me. Reason is I experienced so may stuff that at that time I feel like that I CAN'T survive that moment and I'll be die at any moment but I faced all the traumas that are written for me and I'm proud of myself that I have such stamina to bear that bullshit. Because you know what guys here one factor called patience also involved a lot.

And once you gain the patience and put all you matters on Allah (SWT) then you only need to wait for a very short time to see the end of such people who gave you so much pain. And you guys believe it or not I saw such people then all of their arrogance gone within a second.

Just believe in Allah that He did not put you in situations that you can't bear or that are not meant for you He knows very well that how much we can bear and how much stamina we create for that thing.

Medicines for Trauma:

Trauma is not like that you need medicines for that you only need love, care and attention for that. But very sorry to say at that no one gives you love, care and attention. You need to take care of yourself. At that time no one can do this for you the only person that saves you is you. That's it!

Now come to the such traumas that need proper medication because that person is too sensitive or we can say that such trauma is so severe for them that they can't deal with that thing properly. So in that cases people need medical examination as well as medicines and proper treatment.

Conclusion:

I only want to say always think before you speak and for God sakes don't hurt others just because of your paranoid abnormal behavior.