"Sadness"

 We all know that we all are sad deep down in our hearts but still acting like we are okay with that because from the very start we all hear that sadness is part of our life.

I mean to say that sadness goes side by side in our lives. What things make us sad and depressed I am gonna try to explain those things hope you guys enjoy this Blog!

Now first of all what is sadness?

Definition:

"Sadeness is something that is related to our emotions of pain, grief, sorrow, loss, despair, and disappointments that make an individual lethargic and maybe quiet and with drawl themselves from others"

Why Sadness Haunt Us?

Sadness does occur and mostly occurs when we are hurt by the thing or especially with the person whom we admire a lot and at the end of the day what we got the only thing we got is pain, grief, and sorrow from that person.

Here such a person is anyone your mum, dad, sisters, brother, friends, relatives, and the loved ones who are important to you. Now the thing is the become a source of sadness for us. They themselves are not the persons that are painful for us they want to show their emotions in such a way that hurt us badly.

I don't know why but they want to rectify us but they broke us and then we become that person who always suffers silently. Maybe they are right if they don't guide us we suffer more than this!

Just please For The Love Of God Just Don't Shout:

Well, there is a way to tell someone that this is wrong or at least appear wrong for them. But it is not necessary that you guys always shout at them make them feel so bad that they can't even say a single word and don't even discuss this thing with anyone.

Now you guys say that they can share with others (wo kiya kahyeen ksis sy ja ker k mery oper falan bandy ney apni frustaration nikali hai aur wasay bhi jitnay munh utni batien hoti hain so its better to remain silent like deep water aur saber karoo bashak Allah saber karnay waloon k saat hai)

Reasons:

Some of the reasons for the sadness are given below:

• You become sad because you are badly hurt by your loved ones.
• The thing or person that is very dear to you leaves you there to deal with all the pain suffering and you are in a position to say that please don't go!
• You wanna cry, cry that much that no one pain remains inside through tears they all went but alas that thing also doesn't work. This works when the intensity of pain is low but when your pain is so much that you yourself are surprised that how you are still alive?
• The answer that comes to me or at least that seems true for me is that Allah SWT never burdenaice the soul more than the capacity he\she could bears.
• And if we are suffering from the stuff that we are broke so much then the only thing that we can do is just flow with the rythm of that tinme and believe on Allah's timings and put that matter on Him.

"Indeed He is the Beat Creator and He loves Us more than anyone else in this Whole Entire Universe!"

Now somtimes RANDOM WAVE of Sadness Hits you!

Random Wave Of Sadness And Us:

First I'll Talk about myself then I'll say the stuff about you guys. For me whenever I got sad or hit by random wave of sadness 

FIRST THING I DO IS JUST GO TO SLEEP AND ENTER THE WORLD OF DREAMS AND SEE THE BEAUTY OF DREAMS BEACUSE AT THAT TIME I KNOW I CRY A LOT  AND WITH TEARY EYES I JUST GO TO SLEEP AND AFTER THAT THE GLOW ON MY FACE COMES LIKE THE GLOW I WANTED FOR MY ENTIRE LIFE WELL JOKES APART WHEN I WAKE UP I CRAVE FOR SOMETHING SWEET THAT CAN MAKE ME FEEL BETTER AFTER THAT I AGAIN GO INTO HYBERNATION WELL YOU GUYS DON'T BELIEVE IF I AM FEELING SAD I CAN SLEEP WHOLE DAY AND NO ONE WILL UNDERSTAND ME AT THAT TIME IF SEEMS LIKE PATA NAI HAFSA QURESHI NAY KONSAY NAASHY KIYE HOEY HAIN JO ITNA SOO RAHI HAI PER DEEP DOWN MY HEART IS SO HEAVY AND FULL OF PAIN THAT I CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHAT TO DO OR WHAT NOT TO DO BECAUSE THE THING IS I AM NOT GOOD IN EXPRESSING MYSELF TO THE OTHER PEOPLE OUT THERE AND SOMETIMES I SUFFER A LOT JUST BECAUSE OF THIS THAT I AM NOT  ABLE TO EXPRESS MYSELF PROPERLY THEN WITH THE PASSAGE OF TIME I HAVE TO COLLECT PIECE OF ME AND REARRANGE THEM ACCORDING TO THE WAY THEY ARE LIKE BEFORE BUT YOU KNOW WHAT GUYS I AM NOT ABLE TO DO THAT THING AND THEN THOSE PIECES REMAIN LIKE THAT AND HURT ME MORE THAN THAT AND THE ONLY THING I CAN DO IS JUST CRY AND BLEED BECAUSE OF THAT KHAIR LET IT BE !!!

"Believe me Situation 100% asi hoti hai meri"

YOU GUYS ARE WAY TO IMPORTANT FOR ME AS WELL:

Now when you guysfeel sad just grab a little cute baby and play with him\her believe me you guys feel much better than before because babies are so cute innocent and harmless naw they can give you happiness by just blinking their cute little shinny shimmery sparkling eyes!

Conculsion:

WALA ALLAH HO ALAM I have much more to say about this and definitely ill say about that pardon me because my neck pain don't allow me to say or write more stuff because today the stiffness is so much i can't tilt my head properly 

Well Do pray for me and my loved ones and Do pray for yourself guys because you guys are equally important for me!!! because you all are plantonic wala love 💕💖

Peace out!👐